From the very beginning, I tried to be the “perfect” wife. Truly — as if I had signed an invisible contract: baking pies, ironing shirts, smiling even when I wanted to cry. Especially in front of Vera Pavlovna, his mother.
Vera Pavlovna, a former schoolteacher, always had a stern look, as if she was ready to send me back to the blackboard. Every word from her mouth was a criticism; every glance, a judgment: “Not like that,” “You can’t do it.”
— You cut the potatoes like that? — she’d say sweetly. — Igor likes them thinner. I always made them smaller, more convenient.
I held my breath, nodded, and stayed silent. A daughter-in-law doesn’t argue — she obeys. She must prove she deserves her husband.
Yet the more I tried, the more her remarks piled up:
— Mayonnaise in a salad? Pfff… nowadays young people only eat fat.
— Your baby doesn’t sleep before 3 a.m.? At three months, mine was sleeping through the night! Clearly, you’re doing something wrong.
Each visit felt like an inspection: checking the fridge, testing the floors, peeking into the baby’s room. Wake-up at 7 a.m. “because routines matter.” Never a “thank you.” Never a “how are you?”
And one day, I snapped. Not in anger, but calmly — and for good.
It was a rainy day. The baby was asleep in his stroller. I was making beef bourguignon. The kitchen was filled with the scent when the door opened — without knocking. She was there.
— I came to see my grandson, — she said, already at the stove. No “hello,” no “please.”
She lifted the lid and grimaced:
— You sautéed the carrots? Ugh, that’s too heavy. I always use them raw — it’s healthier.
That was the moment everything changed. I took off my apron, set down my spoon, and said in a steady voice:
— You don’t have to eat this.
She froze. I continued:
— If you don’t like this beef bourguignon, feel free to make your own. This is my house, my kitchen, and my recipe.
Her eyes widened:
— How dare you speak to me like that?!
— I’m tired of being your student. Your “lessons” help no one anymore. I’m an adult, and I won’t keep enduring your constant tests.
Silence. Finally, she murmured:
— I’ll talk to Igor about this…
I nodded:
— Let him hear my side too.
When Igor came home, I was icy calm. He said:
— Mom called. She said you were harsh.
— I simply stood up for myself. I won’t keep obeying in silence.
After a pause, he gave a small smile:
— You’re right. I’ll talk to her.
Since then, her visits have been quiet and rare. Vera Pavlovna now comes only to hold the baby lovingly — and never criticizes me again.
