My name is María, I am 53 years old, I have been married to my husband for 32 years, and we have two daughters who no longer live with us.
The first fifteen years of our relationship were wonderful, of course, with some small problems like in any family.
In 1995, we lost the apartment we were living in due to a bank loan.
With two young children, we had to move in with my parents.
Three years later, my husband went to France, and soon I followed him, leaving the girls with my parents.
We both worked for two years and were able to buy a house.
The house we bought was far from my parents, so I had to leave my husband in France and return with my daughters to Romania.
At that time, we would meet and see each other every few months.
During this period, another woman entered my husband’s life, turning him into a man who stopped controlling himself.
He even communicated poorly with his daughters and didn’t want us to visit.
For me and for my youngest daughter (who still loves her father very much), this was a shock.
I fell into a deep depression, stopped eating, stopped sleeping, my life became a nightmare from which I couldn’t wake up.
Years passed, I found a job, and gradually I began to forget what had happened.
One day, my husband lost his job and money and asked his daughters to bring him back to us.
I accepted him, forgave him, but he continued to cheat on me.
Every time I found out about it, because he didn’t know how to hide his affairs.
Then he was faithful for several years until he went to Africa and, of course, met a 24-year-old girl who was younger than his own daughters.
Now he works in France, comes home once a month, but has another mistress who is 20 years younger than him.
Although I found out about this, he denies having that relationship.
Please tell me, what should I do?
